Our 100 Day Guide – Personal Growth and Development – Day 16-18
Here is how we are going to have the best 100 Days of our life, thanks to amazing personal growth and development. This comes courtesy of Gary Ryan Blair, The Goals Guy.
Let me begin my saying… don’t try to get this right, just get the first draft down and posted on the site as soon as possible! As you will see, even with my plan, there are some things that need to be added. As my coach Dan Sullivan says, “Get the first draft 80% complete and move on!”
The 5, 4, 3, 2, 1 Plan
Here it is plain and simple… list the:
5 “Must Do’s”
4 Things You Must Stop Doing
3 Things You Must Delegate
2 People to Hold You Accountable
1 Big BANG (Bold Audacious Noble Goal)!
Let me review each of these….
5 “Must Do’s” for the next 100 days.
Knowing what you want to accomplish over the next 100 days, what are the five things that you ABSOLUTLY must accomplish? Think of it this way, if you didn’t do these five things, there is no way you would accomplish it.
4 Things You Must Stop Doing for the next 100 Days
What are four things you are currently doing that does not support your Big BANG? Write those down as it is time to stop doing them (at least of the next 100 days!). It’s time that you honor yourself! Doesn’t that just feel right?
Warren Buffet says it best, “The difference between successful people and really successful people is that really successful people say no almost all the time.” See, many people are addicted to the “yes.” YES, I will join this, YES, I will do that for you, YES, I will take on that project. Well, for the next 100 days, only say YES to the things that will contribute to your Big BANG!
3 Things You Must Delegate for the next 100 Days
Some of you may be thinking… Delegate? I don’t have any employees! The good news is that you don’t need employees to delegate. At the very minimum, you need people who are excited and committed to your goals! Who might that be? Your children? Your significant other? Your spouse? Your business partner?
Let’s face it; there are certain things that make sense for you to spend your time doing, and certain things that don’t make sense. We all only have 60 minutes in an hour, and 24 hours in a day… that is it! You are going to need to MAXIMIZE your efficiency to hit your BIG BANG!
So whether you are going to delegate to people in your life or your employees, you need to list three things that you are not going to do for 100 days (not forever, just 100 days!)..
2 People to Hold You Accountable
THIS IS CRITICAL!!!! You need two people in your life to hold you accountable to your personal growth and development. Anytime you are going to accomplish a BIG BANG Goal, you need people in your life that you talk to on a daily or every other day basis that is going to lift you up when you are down, AND, you will do the same for them! Do not choose people who are going to say that your goal is “not realistic, impossible, improbable” those type of people will guarantee one thing – that you won’t achieve your goal
You have two choices:
1) Invite two people in your life (friends, family, co-workers) to join our group, participate like you are and be your partner!
2) Ask for a partner from our group and you can do that by asking them to be your partner directly! You can post a reply to one of their posts and simply ask them if they would like to be your accountability partner.
1 Big BOLD Audacious Noble Goal (BANG)!
This is the fun part. When you do the “5 Must Do’s,” and Stop doing the “4 Things,” and delegate “3 Things” and have two great people hold you accountable… what is the Big BOLD Audacious Noble Goal that will be possible?
DECLARE IT!!!!
Here is mine:
5 MUST DO’S for the next 100 Days
1) Work the X Factor. Identify it and implement it.
a. How to I get 7-10x more people enroll into our program?
b. Easy ways to make $500K in 90 days
c. How to get You Tube videos to have 1.0 million views?
2) 1/1 Numbers Training (Accounting) – This is the weakest part of my business
a. I will know my numbers well enough to be able to explain in to my wife
3) Be mentored by Gary Ryan Blair
4) Identify all the contradictions in my life, and change ten of them of them. My current contradictions are below:
- Emailing my clients over an over to the same event
- Emailing my clients about someone else that I REALLY don’t know that well!.
- Being “salesy” in any way
- When I’m not being myself b/c I don’t want to upset my wife
- When I’m thinking of people are real people with real problems
- When all I do is think about the marketing… not the message
- When I’m not focused on the quality… just the quantity (SEO, Video)
- When I’m only worried about making money, not touching lives
- Not trusting my intuition with my staff, letting my brain guide me, not my gut
- Saying “Yes” because I think I can, not because I REALLY want to do something
- Saying “Yes” to much…
- Doing anything that feels like a FORCE
- Auto Loan Advantage – Trying to motivate people that really aren’t motivated
- Traveling because I think I need to
- Doing project because I think I need to
- Hiring consultants that don’t know what to do….
5) Say no to all new projects and activities for the next 100 Days
4 Things to Stop Doing
1) Stop Checking my email first thing in AM
2) Stop eating in a manner that doesn’t support my health
a. PLAN: Eat 70% of time on Zone Diet and three week (15 days) of Raw Food with Fish
3) Stop failing to honor my wife
a. PLAN: Have Lily rate me as a husband on a scale of 1-10 every day, if it’s not a 10, ask her why..
4) TO BE ADDED….
3 Thing to Delegate
1) Building initial relationships with other bloggers
2) Reaching out to other bloggers
3) TO BE ADDED
2 People that will hold me Accountable
1) Sean Stephenson
2) Mark Tarbell
1 BANG Goal – Big BOLD, Ambitious, Noble Goal
1) $500,000 in Gross Income in the next 90 Days and give $50,000 to charity
Lastly, for the next 100 days you need to protect your confidence and you can do that by not worrying, not feeling shameful, not feeling bad about what has happened in your past. Now is the time for you stand tall among all men! This is your moment!
If you have made it this far… email me and say, “Send me the book!” and I’m going to send you a book that I read every day that protects my confidence, keeps me going on the path of personal growth and development, and out of the rut of life’s thoughts!
BE BOLD, ACT NOW…. Post your plan below ASAP!!!
P.S. Please comment on the other people plans. This will only work if all of us, as a team contribute to each other. So, if someone inspires you, tell them!
Our 100 Day Guide – Personal Growth and Development – Day 16-18
